Addiction or Seduction?

Seen positively, seduction is a synonym for the act of charming someone — male or female — by an appeal to the senses, often with the goal of reducing unfounded fears and leading to their “sexual emancipation”. ~ Wikipedia

While I don’t agree seduction is limited to male/female initiation, nor that leads to emancipation of only our sexuality, I love what this quote conveys. Seduction is a doorway to liberation; to unveiling some hidden part of ourselves – our true selves. Seduction is a mystical substance. I realize that’s a bold statement, but it’s one of which I am certain. And I believe all acts of seduction have the power to lead us into a deeper state of love – love in its pure, universal form.

I’m no expert on addiction. So what I’m going to share here comes from my own inner truth and personal experience. I’m quite certain there are many who might label me an addict. Addicted to delicious food, to incredible sexual interludes, to afternoons indulging in movies on my couch, to a glass of wine in the evening, to beauty, even to my own spiritual journey. The list can go on and on. Perhaps I’m ‘addicted’ to my own way of walking in this world.

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I don’t believe that’s true. I’m not an addict. And I don’t believe many who have been labeled as such are either. For myself, I have moved from depending on these things to make me happy into a state of understanding they feed the longing of my senses. It’s my SENSES that call to me, that seduce me into a different way of being. In so doing, the seduction frees old ways of seeing my self, of believing that pleasure is bad or wrong and abstinence or ‘everything in moderation’ is good. I can’t find my way to feeling that as true in my being.

There was a time in my life I would certainly have been tagged – and have been – an addict. To sex. To partying. To eating. I began to judge them as wrong. The more I have liberated the old lies inside of me and tuned into what MY own truth is, the more I realize part of who I am personally is a lover of the pleasures of life. They connect me to my own inner passion. They stir something inside me that becomes a channel to the sacred. They open doors that have for too long been closed in judgment of being something ‘wrong.’

So I ask you, my friends. Is it seduction into a different way of being with ourselves, into a deeper relation to our senses and the mystical portal they offer? Or is it addiction that has a death grip on our survival and well being? Feel the difference of these two. Sink into the energy they ARE and feel what they evoke in your BODY. Our bodies do not lie. They are the greatest receptors of our own personal truth there is.

This post originated through conversation with a beloved friend over the phrase ‘Seduced by Love.’ I began to write of that and somehow ended up here. Seduced by Love felt so fluffy and overused. I believe we need to come to a new way of relating to the art of seduction, to its energy and presence in our world, our lives, our passion. We have feared its existence for too long.

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5 thoughts on “Addiction or Seduction?

  1. This is a beautiful Write Jacqueline… From childhood we are taught the wrongs of our bodies… Here you have shown how to express the true inner beauty of sheer bliss of ourselves.. Many thanks for sharing your heart and your passion … Much love your way.. xx Sue

  2. Seduction. Sex. Sexuality. Sensuality. All these “S’s” are labelled and get lumped under another “S” — Sinful. Our bodies and our senses certainly don’t lie but we’ve been programmed to not trust them — sadly.

    Love the invitation to “come to a new way of relating to the art of seduction.” Yes! 🙂

    And lovely image again! 🙂

    Infinite Blessings,
    ❤ ❤ ❤ NadineMarie ❤ ❤ ❤

  3. and again My heart just wants to YELL –
    NOW & WOW, abolishing old ways – indeed >>>>into Utopia x we all make our Own .
    There is a deep sensuality to your piece here – 🙂 it’s not about “sex ”
    It’s about Lapping up Love and Revelry .
    There is a definite strength and fervour to everything You write these days ……
    You Know this already ❤
    To Utopia , To being Free -To really tapping in to the mystery .
    I love you x
    Catherine

  4. as i read this, I felt like I was strolling through a field of sunflowers – strong, tall, beautiful, fragrant and full of mystery. Every time you share your beautiful heart, your soul with us, I am enriched and blessed.

I always love to hear your thoughts....xx

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